I was married & committed to a gentle and humble man for many years, however my desire for frequent change made my long-term commitments a real challenge. The flames of passion cooled and the comfort became wearing.
Togetherness with the wrong person made me itch to be on the first train out. I simply cannot resist the urge to let my eyes, imagination and heart wander to find that lasting happiness. I truly have no final end in mind. I enjoy the excitement that the journey holds. I prefer unique out of the way reaches, and feel like I was born to play and go where it takes me.
Society tells us that we should (as women) grow up, get married, have children and live our lives as a Mother & Wife. I tried to fit into that picture, but it was like fitting a square peg into a round hole. So finally after 15 years of being married, I took a leap of faith and ended my marriage. It was the best decision I could have made. We have a beautiful son together, who is the love of my life. My life with my son has been filled to the brim with wonderful happenings and exciting travel and I look forward to many more celebrated experiences to come!
It's been 6 years since I followed my heart, and I love "liv'n out loud!
Melanie
Salem, NH
Believe in yourself first…
Second guessing yourself is a sure way to miss out on the possibility of something great happening to you.
I was in the same position at work for 11 years and an opportunity came up to take my director’s job. I always
told my husband that I never wanted her job. It was too big, too much responsibility and my degree wasn’t high enough for the position. I came up with every excuse in the book –so I thought. After a bit of coaxing and moral support from friends, I applied for the position. Now the doubts were really coming into play; could I really manage this office? Could I deal with my co-workers and friends becoming my subordinates? Could I gain the respect from the other managers and directors of the organization? Could I…? Could I …? Could I...?
Well, I've been in the position now for two years and it's been a wonderful ride. I have grown both personally
and professionally and am loving every minute. Although it has not been without its pitfalls and sleepless nights,
it has been the opportunity of a lifetime. I am certain I would have been truly disappointed had I not taken a
huge gamble on myself and my abilities. Sometimes you just have to believe in yourself. It can really be an exhilarating high!
Pat
N. Smithfield, Rhode Island
